Betty L. Ditlow

Betty L. Ditlow (Foulke) peacefully departed from this world on Wednesday, November 29, 2023, at the age of 98, surrounded by her family at her residence in Willow Valley Lakeside. Born in Bradshaw, MD, to the late Howard A. Foulke and Josephine Vinson. Betty dedicated many years as a registered nurse at Church Home & Hospital in Baltimore, leaving an indelible mark on those she cared for. While raising her family, she attended Millersville University and earned her B.S. in Nursing in 1971. A pillar of faith, Betty was a devoted member of the Millersville Methodist Church. Her spirituality illuminated her path and brought comfort to those around her. Beyond her profession and faith, Betty was a skilled quilter, sharing her talent as a former member of The Red Rose Quilters and Delmarva Quilters. Her quilts were a labor of love for her children and grandchildren. Her artistry of quilting was surpassed only by her love of the outdoors. Betty learned to ski in Canada at age 50 and kayaked at her Delaware home until she was 88. She lived at Willow Valley for 33 years was often seen on her motorized scooter around the Willow Valley Community. She loved being outdoors, watching birds, and being in touch with nature. Betty was an avid bridge player and teacher. She enjoyed playing with her peers in games of Bridge and Parchesi. Before each game, she lets you know that she plays to win. Betty is reunited with her late husband, George H. Ditlow, her late son, Bruce Ditlow, and her late great-grandson Joshua Ditlow-Yuan. She is survived by her devoted children: Joan McMahon (John), Gary Ditlow (Micki), Kathy Ditlow (Claude Lavallee), Tony Ditlow (Jacque) and Julie Ditlow. Betty is also remembered as the dear sister of the late Iris Agee and Shirley M. Bear. Her legacy extends to the next generations as a loving grandmother to Kristin, Annie, Bruce, Carrie, Kelsey, Blake, and Karly, and an adoring great-grandmother to eight. In celebrating Betty's life, we honor a woman of strength, compassion, and creativity. Her memory will forever be engraved in our hearts, a testament to a life well lived. Betty planned her own memorial service down to the letter, which will be scheduled for a later date in 2024. Her family would love for you to attend her memorial or at the very least share a fond memory or story on this site for them to treasure. The Groff Family Funeral Home and Cremation Center of Lancaster is honored by her family for choosing them to carry out Betty’s last wishes with confidence.